Stay with the Paddle, or reach for the Flogger?

I haven’t yet touched on why I am writing this.

My goal was to post something every day for a year. Poetry, stories, stories about now and from the past, random thoughts, and whatever else interests me. Why? Partly because it forces me to write. It gives me an excuse to write. I want to be a writer. And, in the simplest and truest terms, a writer is one who writes. The brilliant friend you have who talks about the novel they are going to write any day now? Not a writer. The friend who keeps a daily diary detailing her inner most thoughts? She’s a writer.

What you won’t see: posts about what kind of smurf, cloud, 18th-century novel, Egyptian God/Goddess, or any other on-line test that tells me what piece furniture I likely to be reincarnated as. I think they’re cute but they’re really not for me. I may take a real personality test, like Myer-Briggs, and write about it, but that’s as far as I go.

That said, I am thinking of re-focusing this site more towards Domination and my thoughts/actions in that area. This would encompass removing (or restricting access to) all poetry, short stories, and autobiographical entries that don’t relate to it – which isn’t *that* much, considering how influential that aspect of my life is on who I am. What would be in it’s place? A more defined exploration of what D&S is, with specific examples given to illustrate my points. I’d likely go from daily updates to thrice-weekly. Despite how wonderful I think my poetry is, I can’t imagine it is as entertaining as reading about the best position to hold someone in while spanking them. Or discussing hot and cold; the difference (or lack of) in sensation of a mouth with an ice cube teasing a nipple, and a mouth filled with near-scalding hot water. Or what makes someone a good or bad Dom. Good or bad submissive. Why are some people switches? Why do even those who switch generally have a preference for one or the other?

What do you guys think? I’m going to mull it over this weekend and any thoughts would be welcome.

2 thoughts on “Stay with the Paddle, or reach for the Flogger?”

  1. It’s your space; do with it what you will.

    I’m sure you’ll have readers regardless (if that sort of thing matters to you; it matters to me, as I really don’t enjoy shouting into a void)…I know I wouldn’t mind reading more posts on D/s. Maybe I can learn something.

    Although, I *would* like to see what sort of smurf your personality would make you. ;-P

  2. Who would want to be reincarnated as a piece of furniture?

    Ive always wanted to take pen to paper but it is not as easy as one may think…My Father had Alzheimer’s and I wanted to write a book about his suffering and what it meant to each of his 4 children now 3 left.

    I never wrote in a diary when I was a youngster but after the death of my Mother, my best friend, October 2002 I purchased a journal and began entering my thoughts for the day; the days turned into years and I stopped writing April 18, 2008.

    The idea of D/s; although Im not submissive, I do have yearnings..
    I guess that is why Ive returned to reading the blogs of solipsubmissive and was introduced to your website.

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