NE shared an intriguing comment with me tonight. We were considering how women have actual sex together (not just foreplay or teasing). We discussed several of the possibilities and towards the end of the conversation I asked, ‘How would you have sex with SB?’ (SB is a close friend to NE and I and NE has been exploring the boundaries of this friendship over the last couple years – an exploration that had gone to some interesting places, but has yet to cross certain borders).
Bear with me, I am going somewhere with this.
I listened to her answer, which included going down on SB, and then asked, ‘How would you do that? Slide one of her legs over your shoulder?’
No, she replied. That’s something men think of. She leaned over, and said in a soft voice – as if passing on a secret, ‘Women like to be open. Spread and then feasted upon.’
Women like to be open.
In my mind, I’ve equated this openness with vulnerability. When I spread her thighs or tell her to do so, it is to let her know how accessible she is to me. I want her exposed and knowing it. But from her words, I now think there is something more to it then that.
I still think the idea of slipping a leg over the shoulder is erotic (such possibilities to nuzzle the thigh, nip at a calf, feel her heel dig into my upper back). But now I must consider where true consummation is found.
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